By Gambrah Sampeney KWABENA ADJEI
As I walked through a bustling public transportation station in our city, I stumbled upon a group of people engaged in a lively discussion.
They were debating why some individuals become arrogant or pompous when they acquire riches.
I couldn’t help but smile as I listened and before I knew it, one of them turned to me and asked, “is it not true, mister?”
I took a moment to share my thoughts. “It is not the money that makes someone pompous or arrogant,” I said.
“Rather, it is the person’s character being revealed in its full nature.”
I illustrated my point with a simple analogy: “just like a bird flying away when the tree it is standing on is cut down, our true character is revealed when we are pushed, persuaded or forced.”
I continued, “Money is simply a medium of exchange, a tool that enables us to acquire what we desire.
It does not change who we are; it only aids us in achieving our goals.”
I emphasized that money is merely an enabler and that our character is what truly define us.
One of the individuals asked a follow up question: “why do people tend to quit their jobs after acquiring riches?” I replied, “when we are pushed or forced, our true nature is revealed.
If the work is our passion, our purpose in life, we will continue to pursue it.
However, if it is just a job, we will often quit once we have the means to do so.”
I cited the example of Samuel Ata Mensah, the Managing Director of City FM and Channel One TV.
Despite his success, he remains humble and continues to do what he loves.
His character is evident in his affable and respectful demeanour.
In conclusion, I emphasized that character is the foundation of who we are.
It is the mental and moral qualities that distinguish us as individuals.
When we observe someone with riches being rude or belittling others,
it is not the riches that is the issue-it is their character.
Being humble, respectful and serviceable are all characteristics that can be learned and practiced.
It is up to us to decide who we want to be and to cultivate good character.
As I walked away from the group, I hoped that my words would resonate with them and inspire them to reflect on the importance of character in their own lives.
