By Kingsley Larbi(Rev.Prof)
Introduction
In the ever-evolving tapestry of our lives, family stands as the enduring thread that binds us together. Rev. Prof. E. Kingsley Larbi, the esteemed Founder and Chancellor of Regent University College of Science and Technology, Ghana, offers a heartfelt reflection on the power of family unity in Chapter 5 of his memoir, Born to Win: The Memoirs and Reflections of a Trailblazer. Titled “The Filial Solidarity I Cannot Forget,” this chapter imparts timeless lessons that resonate deeply with readers, emphasizing the importance of familial bonds, cultural heritage, and enduring love.
The Strength of Unity
The Author begins this chapter with a reference to Psalm 133, highlighting the beauty and joy of living together in unity. For readers, this biblical analogy serves as a powerful reminder of the strength that comes from togetherness. In an age where individualism often overshadows communal values, there is value of unity. It teaches that harmony within families and communities is not just desirable but essential for a fulfilling life. The lesson here is clear: by fostering unity, we build a foundation of support and love that sustains us through life’s challenges.
Cherishing Shared Memories
The Author’s vivid recollections of his childhood, spent with his cousins in Ghana, evoke a sense of nostalgia and warmth. These shared memories, filled with joyful gatherings and playful competitions, underscore the importance of creating and preserving family traditions. Readers are reminded of their family moments, prompting a reflection on the significance of these experiences in shaping our identities. The narrative encourages us to cherish these moments and recognize their lasting impact on our lives. The lesson here is to actively create and preserve family traditions that foster a sense of belonging and continuity.
Unwavering Love and Support
The unbreakable bond among Rev. Prof. Larbi’s mother and her sisters offers a powerful lesson in love and solidarity. This depiction serves as a reminder that family is not merely about blood relations but about unwavering support and mutual respect. In a world where relationships can sometimes feel transactional, this chapter highlights the importance of standing by each other through thick and thin. True strength lies in our ability to support and uplift one another, demonstrating love that goes beyond mere obligation. Readers are encouraged to emulate this level of commitment in their own families, ensuring that love and support remain the bedrock of their relationships.
Rekindling Family Bonds
One of the most impactful lessons from Chapter 5 is the call to rekindle and maintain familial bonds. In today’s fast-paced world, it is easy to lose touch with extended family and let relationships fade. Rev. Prof. Larbi’s reflections inspire readers to prioritize family connections and make a conscious effort to stay united. The chapter serves as a gentle nudge to organize family gatherings, celebrate milestones together, and create new traditions that strengthen bonds. The lesson is simple yet profound: by making an effort to stay connected, we honor our past and enrich our present and future with love and unity.
Conclusion
“The Filial Solidarity I Cannot Forget,” from Born to Win, offers readers more than just a glimpse into Rev. Prof. Larbi’s life; it provides a blueprint for nurturing strong familial relationships. The lessons of unity, love, cultural heritage, and solidarity are timeless, resonating deeply in our modern context. As we reflect on this chapter, we are reminded that the strength of our families lies in our ability to come together, support one another, and cherish the bonds that define us.
The writer is the Founder & Chancellor, Regent University College of Science and Technology, Ghana
